It’s not always that easy to read a dog’s emotions, and sometimes we wish they could tell us how they were feeling. It’s not always obvious whether they are happy or sad. You might also struggle to understand if your Chihuahua loves you.
Firstly, I am sure your Chihuahua loves you a lot, so please don’t worry. Secondly, I wanted to put together a list of signs to look out for so you can tell if your Chihuahua is happy or not. Firstly, a quick explainer though on Chihuahua love and happiness…
How do I know if my Chihuahua is happy? There are lots of ways you can tell a Chihuahua is happy and loves you including wiggly bottoms, a relaxed body, being playful, a good appetite and no destructive behavior. These and more are how you know your Chihuahua loves you and is happy.
How can I tell if my Chihuahua is happy and loves me?
If you’ve been out for a while and come through the door to an excitable Chihuahua jumping up at you, that’s a sign your Chihuahua loves you. But aside from the obvious, what else should you be looking out for?
Here’s my top list of signs on how to know your Chihuahua loves you.
1. Your Chihuahua has what appears to be a smile
Chihuahua will often relax their mouth, lips, and tongues to give you what looks like a happy grin. It’s a smile where their lips curl up, their eyes soften, and their tongue pops out.
2. Your Chihuahua does bottom wiggles and tail wags
Chihuahuas will wag their tails when they are in the mood. What you will also notice how they love to wiggle their bum when happy.
If you come home through your door to be greeted by a shuffling, butt-wiggling pooch, you can be sure your Chihuahua loves you and is happy as Larry.
3. Your Chihuahua gives you the big puppy dog eyes
Chihuahua have some of the most expressive eyes of any dog, and not just because of the unique appearance. Like all dogs, they can give you the classic puppy dog eyes, which is a sign of a happy Chihuahua.
But why do dogs do this?
There’s actually some science behind it; apparently dogs have developed the ability to make your heart melt with a simple gaze as part of their domestic evolution. It’s a response behavior as dogs know it triggers a positive response in humans.
Happy dogs will relax their eyes, angry and scared dogs will narrow their eyes. So, if you see those soft Chihuahua eyes, you know yours is happy and loves you.
4. Your Chihuahua shows no aggression
Unhappy Chihuahuas will be aggressive and will show their teeth. Whilst they might be small, they can still snarl, put their ears back slightly, and act defensively.
5. Your Chihuahua has a relaxed body
Loving and happy Chihuahuas will be relaxed, and you will visibly see this in their body. A Chihuahua that loves you will show happiness with a relaxed body including those bum wiggles I mentioned earlier.
If you have ever seen one of those Chihuahua happy dances where their whole body starts wiggling, you will know what I mean. On the other hand, a rigid body is a sign of stress.
6. Your Chihuahua has plenty of reasons to play
Playful Chihuahuas are happy Chihuahuas. If you have a Chihuahua who doesn’t want to play, then get him checked out by a vet.
It’s also one of the best signs to look for to see if your Chihuahua loves you. They will come up to you and try to initiate a game of play; that could be fetch, ball, tug of war, tickles, you name it.
For recommendations on what your Chihuahua should play with, take a look at these Chihuahua toy suggestions on Amazon.
7. Your Chihuahua does not exhibit destructive behavior
Unhappy Chihuahuas can be destructive. When stressed and sad they will chew, bite and destroy anything in sight. This should not be confused with your puppy’s teething stage though when it’s completely natural or them to want to chew things.
One of the more common reasons for destructive behavior is separation anxiety. Dogs thrive on human company – being left home alone can have a huge impact on the way they behave.
If you are out at work, or even away from home for a couple of hours, you might come back to a scene of destruction. This can include barking, digging holes, chewing, tearing, ripping and other bad behavior.
To mitigate this, and to make your Chihuahua love you more, make sure you keep your Chihuahua active and exercised, play with them, and consider how long you might be leaving them home alone.
8. Your Chihuahua has a healthy appetite
You can tell your Chihuahua is happy if he’s eating well.
Dogs who lose their appetite, act lethargic, and are reluctant to play and more often than not, sick. Your Chihuahua puppy should be eating 3 small meals a day, whereas an adult should eat twice daily.
9. Your Chihuahua sticks their tongue out
Whilst there is a condition called hanging tongue which can result from neurological and structural defects, a little tongue poking out can signal happiness.
You might notice it when your Chihuahua is asleep. The tongue poking out means that are completely relaxed and in a happy state.
The next time your Chihuahua’s tongue stick out, it could be a sign they are totally relaxed, content and happy with life.
10. Your Chihuahua has a healthy coat
A healthy coat means a happy dog… well, in most cases. But in all seriousness, a heathy looking coat is usually a sign that most is alright with your Chihuahua. When your Chihuahua’s in great shape, he or she will definitely love you for it.
On the flip side, a stressed-out Chihuahua can lose their hair. Signs to look out for include flaky skin, obvious signs of hair loss, and excessive scratching. If you do see this, it’s unlikely that you Chihuahua is happy.
11. Your Chihuahua wants to be close to you
When a Chihuahua leans into you, it’s a sign that they love you and are happy with everything you are doing as their owner. You please them so they want to get up close and personal!
12. Your Chihuahua follows you like a shadow
When you have earned the trust of your Chihuahua, you will soon notice that they follow everywhere, from room to room, and even if you shift on the couch.
As I mentioned earlier, Chihuahuas can suffer with separation anxiety, so keeping close and following you around makes them feel secure. Chihuahuas love to follow their owners; it’s one way for a Chihuahua to show it loves you.
New Chihuahuas soon become very attached to their owners and will fall in love with you quickly providing you give them security they need.
13. Your Chihuahua will give you Chihuahua kisses
How do I know if my Chihuahua loves me? Could it be any clearer than with a big sloppy a kiss?
Chihuahuas show affection to their owners by getting their nose and mouth up close to yours and administering their version of a kiss. It’s not a lip thing, instead getting their face right into yours and doing some rapid-fire sniffing or a lick.
But, play safe with this one. You don’t really want to encourage your Chihuahua to lick your mouth, despite how much it shows they love you and are happy for you to be their master.
14. Your Chihuahua will bring you their toys
If your Chihuahua keeps bringing toys to you, it’s a dog way of showing you love and affection. If it’s your Chihuahua’s favorite toy, you can’t get a higher recommendation than this!
Why? It’s their way of wanting to play with you, but also showing that you are the leader of the pack. By offering you their well-loved toys, it means they trust you to be responsible for their favorite possessions.
If your Chihuahua gives you a toy, it means your Chihuahua is happy and loves you. After all, if they share that toy, it means they want you to like and enjoy it just as much as they do.
Sharing is caring, and it’s one way of telling your Chihuahua is happy for you to be in their life.
15. Your Chihuahua will yawn back at you
You must have seen a friend or family member yawning back at you when you do one. This is a biological response triggered by empathy, leading to contagious yawns.
However, a recent study I found on ScientificAmerican.com explains that dogs also do this. But interestingly, they only tend to yawn back at their owners, and not strangers – because it’s all based on empathy.
If you do see your little dog yawning when you do, you know your Chihuahua loves you.
16. Your Chihuahua will raise their eyebrows
This isn’t an easy sign to see but can still be a very subtle way for your Chihuahua to show that they love you. I’ve personally not seen this in my own dogs, but did read about a study in Japan that founds when owners walk into a room, their dog will raise their eyebrows
The research found that dogs don’t do this with strangers though, only their close humans. That means if you walk into your lounge and your Chihuahua looks at your and raises an eyebrow, he’s bound to be happy and love you unconditionally.
17. Your Chihuahua will want to jump up on you
I know we’re meant to train our dogs not to jump up, but it’s still one way in which your Chihuahua shows how affectionate they are to you.
Whilst jumping up can be an adorable trait with a Chihuahua puppy, as they get older it’s can be problem behavior you should not really encourage.
18. Your Chihuahua will roll over
If your Chihuahua rolls over in front of you and asks for a belly rubbing, it’s a sure sign they trust and love you – not to mention being in the throes of happiness!
When a dog rolls onto his back and exposes his belly, it means they trust you as they make themselves vulnerable. This is classic submissive behavior that only secure and happy Chihuahuas will display.
19: Your Chihuahua will let out a little sigh
Chihuahuas can make little noises that let you tell they love you or they are in a happy mood.
For example, there’s one sound that shows your Chihuahua is happy to be around you. It’s a little sigh of content. Some have compared it to a low moan, and it tends to happen when your Chihuahua is settling down to relax.
If your Chihuahua does this in your company it means they feel safe and happy around you, with no worries over threats.
Signs of a depressed Chihuahua
I’ve already touched on a number of factors in my guide to Chihuahua happiness, but what should you look out for if your Chihuahua isn’t happy, but instead has depression?
Here are some signals that could point towards Chihuahua depression:
- Growling and aggressive behavior.
- Narrowed eyes.
- Lack of appetite (here’s what vomiting means).
- Increasing panting.
- Howling and whining.
- Indoor urination and/or defecation.
- Fearful behavior such as cowering and hiding.
- Destructive behavior including chewing.
- Overall disobedience.
- Lack of interest in playing and their toys.
- Disturbed or irregular sleep patterns.
- Too much sleep compared to usual.
- Excessive licking of themselves.
- No longer responding to love and affection.
Some people will get a dog without really thinking about the commitment involved. Raising a healthy and happy Chihuahua can be very hard work.